College; Teachings.

I will not bore you with the story, of how I learned what I am about to share with you. But I will share with you that I have felt this way for many years and for many years I could not put it into as simple of term as "I Create it all" Which was a topic of discussion in my online class. The concept behind this is something I have done for many years. In my life things happen and those things that happen I tell myself are cause by my actions. Now to take responsibility of something is to gain control of it. This puts the power back in your hands. One can always blame everything and anything else but to control your own life to take responsibilities for things in your life keeps it your life. Example...

 I am walking down the street and a person walks into me. After this person walks into me they turn and say, I'm sorry, I turn and say no problem.

                 While most people would become upset by the person that walked into... with remarks like "Watch where you’re going...!" or "You saw me walking here...” I will leave out any choice words a person would most likely use in a situation like this. Now the reason I do not get upset is because had I been paying better attention to my surroundings had I been faster, had I to avoid the person as I feel I should be. Then it would of never happen. To take responsibility in my life is a way I use to better myself in anything I do. There is only one aspect I can control and truly that is me and my actions. If I wait for every else to do something to make me better or to better my life then I would be unhappy for the rest of it.

                I feel like everything I do in life every feeling I have everything I care to share will always come full circle and connect to each other. The reason I say this because in my last post I spoke about the "pursuit of happiness" How would you feel if I said this concept that I have lived by directly relates and helps my pursuit of happiness. In a way it improves it, and provides me with tools to always change my happiness so that I can always pursuit it. The point is to better ones self in any situation and return as quickly as one can to their desired pursuit of happiness.