Compared to the world.

Believe the words I say. Don’t assume. I say what was meant to be said in the way I figure it should have been said only to relay the message that was said. I do not believe in having anyone read between the lines or understand my sarcasm. What I want you to know is exactly what I have said. I try to use metaphors to explain in great or simpler detail, but for the most part what was said was said the best way I figure to say it at the time I said it.

“I like juice.”

That statement doesn’t mean I don’t like soda now does it. So never read into anything I say other than for what I mean it to be. I live a life in which I try to be as honest as a person can handle. I do not lie for personal gain, unless comic relief is a personal gain. I do not consider it to be; therefore my statement is true, to me.  In my honesty I do not feel it is also my responsibility to hurt ones feelings therefore I will only be as honest as I feel a person can handle. I try my best not to lie so therefore either I change the subject or I ask if they really would like to know. Ones pursuit of truth; never be confused with ones pursuit of happiness, will never be undermined by my quest to only bring happiness to one’s life. If truth brings sadness and I am the bearer then so be it. Because only in truth can ones real pursuit of happiness begins. If living a lie is truly ones happiness is it consider a lie? Yes, knowing a lie and choosing to still allow the lie to be what it is does not make the lie the truth.  Lies breed more lies which then breed more lies; the truth breeds emotions and choices. With every truth an emotions occurs and beyond that emotion a choice has to be made.

I am one to believe a lie to be the truth till the truth allows me to know that the lie exists. Once known the emotion and choice then is mine and my own. This is true for everyone in any situation.

If you go to buy a black sweater and are told, here is black sweater (the sales person knowing full well it’s a dark blue sweater) sells it to you and later you find it to be a dark blue sweater now that you have found the lie, the truth is then release once the lie is found and an emotion is then create along with a choice, either like, hate, love (emotion) the sweater than choose to wear it or not (choice).

Asking others to try and understand what I’m saying without saying what I want them to understand is hard to do. Sadly people assume; they assume base on their experience and how others have affect their life.  My spoken and chosen language is English, in order for me to have anyone understand what I am trying to convey to them is by me telling them exactly what I feel then need to know. Sometimes it’s hard to put emotions in words. Would you classify trust as an emotion, if so try to put trust into words without action, hard no? I feel we must understand that trust is about the unknown aspect, therefore to ask someone to trust you; is the easy part, for them to trust you is a hard choice. If there is certainty is there trust?  

My words are true, I avoid lies, the truth I share brings emotions and choice; which I hope will return trust.